Young Women 4 Young Women

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The Young Women 4 Young Women support group was founded in May 2000 by myself, Chris and my friend Rachel who have both experienced breast cancer. 

Rachel, now in her late 40s, had a double mastectomy and reconstruction using silicone implants in 1988. Even though Rachel has now 'retired' she will always remain an honorary member of the group

Chris, I am married, 53, two sons,  and I had a single mastectomy and reconstruction using a TRAM flap in 1995

Do come and visit the group to share your story or just listen to others.


Rachel - Young Women 4 Young Women

Rachel (Co-founder 2000-2009)

Though I am no longer as young as I once was (late 40s) I was young once! In fact I was 27 when I underwent a double mastectomy for LCIS. At the time I knew nothing, in fact the Doctors didn’t know much about LCIS back then.

We now know that it isn’t actually cancer but if you have LCIS you are more likely to get breast cancer. Back when I was diagnosed I was given a stark choice - do nothing and you might be OK, or have a double mastectomy. If you do nothing and it becomes invasive you may die in 6 weeks! As it had taken them 6 weeks to diagnose it the choice seemed obvious. In fact this was the easy bit. I elected for the surgery and went ahead and had the operation with immediate reconstruction using silicone implants.

It was after that things became a bit more difficult - when do you tell a new boyfriend? I was living with a guy at the time but he decided whilst I was intensive care that he needed support - with a young lady in my flat!?! Let’s not dwell on that, I was obviously better off without him but there have been boyfriends since and I am happy to report that all of them are oblivious to the fact that my breasts aren’t real.

However, irrational as it may be I still find it difficult to tell boyfriends. Your story may be a different one. Maybe you found the decision to have surgery hard, or maybe your man was so supportive it brought you closer together. Since my mastectomy, I have been in the RAF, done a parachute jump, SCUBA dived, abseiled, completed the ‘Moonwalk’ - it hasn’t got in the way of my life, in fact it has given me opportunities that I wouldn’t have had.

Everyone has a different story to tell so why not visit the group and share yours. No-one has to speak if they don’t want to - Chris will always find something to talk about!

Rachel - Young Women 4 Young Women
Chris - Young Women 4 Young Women

Chris (Co-founder 2000 - present)

I’m Chris and I run the Young Women 4 Young Women support group. I am now 53 years young and was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 39 in 1995. I am married with two sons (take pity on me).  They were 6 and 9 when I was first diagnosed after finding a lump in my left breast and being referred to Frenchay Hospital for further investigation (there was no Breast Care Centre then).

On removal of the cancerous lump, tests showed I was left with pre-cancerous cells. I was then given the choice to make the decision on my next step. That was a hard one but I felt I had no alternative but to have a mastectomy and reconstructive surgery. I feel very fortunate that I had the opportunity to have this procedure done all at the same time. A long op but hey I was asleep I didn’t mind.

My TRAM flap was done in June 1995 and five weeks later I went on my holidays to Portugal. I felt that even though I had to deal with this happening in my life I was not going to let it effect the family holiday I had already booked.

I had great support from my husband, family and friends and was extremely lucky to not to have to have any further treatment.

My TRAM flap has not compromised any thing I do. My job involves working with children; I go to school camp twice a year which includes abseiling and canoeing. I go to the gym regularly and, like Rachel, have completed the Moonwalk.

I feel due to my experience of breast cancer I have made many new friends and had opportunities that I would not otherwise have had. I believe that, even though I would not wish to have had breast cancer, I have used it as a positive experience to enable me to help others.

Come along to the group any month, and you will meet ladies with similar experiences to you who know what you are going through.

Chris - Young Women 4 Young Women
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