Young Women 4 Young Women

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Hello we are Rachel and Chris and run the Young Women 4 Young Women support group. We both have experiences of breast cancer as young women and have our own stories to tell, but in brief:

I am Rachel; I am single, mid 40s, no children and had a double mastectomy with silicon implants in 1988.

I am Chris, I am married, early 50s, two sons, 18 & 21 and I had a single mastectomy and TRAM flap in 1995

Do come and join us to share your story.


Rachel - Young Women 4 Young Women

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I’m Rachel and make up half of the team that run Young Women 4 Young Women. Though I am no longer as young as I once was (mid 40s) I was young once! In fact I was 27 when I underwent a double mastectomy for LCIS. At the time I knew nothing, in fact the Doctors didn’t know much about LCIS back then.

We now know that it isn’t actually cancer but if you have LCIS you are more likely to get breast cancer. Back when I was diagnosed I was given a stark choice - do nothing and you might be OK, or have a double mastectomy. If you do nothing and it becomes invasive you may die in 6 weeks! As it had taken them 6 weeks to diagnose it the choice seemed obvious. In fact this was the easy bit. I elected for the surgery and went ahead and had the operation with immediate reconstruction using silicone implants.

It was after that things became a bit more difficult - when do you tell a new boyfriend? I was living with a guy at the time but he decided whilst I was intensive care that he needed support - with a young lady in my flat!?! Let’s not dwell on that, I was obviously better off without him but there have been boyfriends since and I am happy to report that all of them are oblivious to the fact that my breasts aren’t real.

However, irrational as it may be I still find it difficult to tell boyfriends. Your story may be a different one. Maybe you found the decision to have surgery hard, or maybe your man was so supportive it brought you closer together. Since my mastectomy, I have been in the RAF, done a parachute jump, SCUBA dived, abseiled, completed the ‘Moonwalk’ - it hasn’t got in the way of my life, in fact it has given me opportunities that I wouldn’t have had.

Everyone has a different story to tell so why not come along and share yours. No-one has to speak if they don’t want to - Chris and I will always find something to talk about! And I am really quite proud of my new boobs so always happy to show off the results!

Rachel - Young Women 4 Young Women
Chris - Young Women 4 Young Women

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I’m Chris and make up the other half of the Young Women 4 Young Women Team. I am now 50 years young and was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 39 in 1995. I am married with two sons (take pity on me).  They were 6 and 9 when I was first diagnosed after finding a lump in my left breast and being referred to Frenchay Hospital for further investigation (there was no Breast Care Centre then).

On removal of the cancerous lump, tests showed I was left with pre-cancerous cells. I was then given the choice to make the decision on my next step. That was a hard one but I felt I had no alternative but to have a mastectomy and reconstructive surgery. I feel very fortunate that I had the opportunity to have this procedure done all at the same time. A long op but hey I was asleep I didn’t mind.

My TRAM flap was done in June 1995 and five weeks later I went on my holidays to Portugal. I felt that even though I had to deal with this happening in my life I was not going to let it effect the family holiday I had already booked.

I had great support from my husband, family and friends and was extremely lucky to not to have to have any further treatment.

My TRAM flap has not compromised any thing I do. My job involves working with children; I go to school camp twice a year which includes abseiling and canoeing. I go to the gym regularly and, like Rachel, have completed the Moonwalk.

I feel due to my experience of breast cancer I have made many new friends and had opportunities that I would not otherwise have had. I believe that, even though I would not wish to have had breast cancer, I have used it as a positive experience to enable me to help others.

Come along to our support group, any month, and I am sure you will get something from it, even if its only a cup of tea and a biscuit.

Chris - Young Women 4 Young Women
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